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STEP OUT OF THE AUTOPILOT

DISCOVER YOUR PATTERNS AND CLEAR THE WAY FOR DEEPLY CONNECTED, HONEST, AND EFFORTLESS CONNECTIONS

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WEEKEND WORKSHOP

The art of conscious connection

In one weekend, you become aware of the patterns that get in the way of connection, and you learn how to meet each other in ways that feel honest, relaxed and alive.

MY VISION

A courageous path to deeper connection

When the desire arises to live from freedom rather than from autopilot, a courageous path opens. A path of feeling more deeply, standing for what you want - and what you do not want - and choosing again and again what feels most loving for yourself and for the other.

This is where deeper connection with yourself and with others becomes possible. 



 

This is where fulfilling relationships happen.

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MY OFFER

When habits and
politeness fall away

In the Touched workshops, we explore what happens when layers of habit and politeness gently fall away. What remains when you no longer give in order to be liked, or receive in order not to hurt or disappoint?



 

When patterns become conscious, something shifts. A space opens in which responding is no longer automatic, but informed by clarity and choice.



 

This is the place where connection becomes raw, honest, nourishing, and surprisingly effortless.

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MY TESTIMONIALS

Many participants describe a deep sense of relief

The experience of being welcomed as fully human.
Not performing, not fixing, not holding it together, but simply being met in what is real.

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STELLA

My partner and I both felt lighter about our relationship afterwards. Some pressure had dropped and we feel more connected, also in the bedroom.

FEEL IT. OWN IT. CHOOSE DIFFERENTLY NOW.

REAL CHANGE BEGINS WHEN YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR EXPERIENCE.

MY WORK

Ways to practice

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Workshops

Immersive workshops that transform how you relate to yourself and others, opening the door to connection that feels honest, empowered and alive.

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Coaching

One-to-one coaching - for individuals and couples - offers a dedicated space, ideal when you want personal support or depth beyond a workshop setting. 

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Invite & festivals

Bring embodied consent practices into your school, training, or event.
Each invitation is co-created and tuned to the people present, allowing meaningful connection to emerge.

MY...

Patterns shape more than we realise

True connection arises when you are genuinely present with yourself and with another. That may sound simple, yet there is often a lot in the way: expectations, assumptions, the fear of doing something wrong, the impulse to adapt, to please, or to work just a little harder in contact.

Much of this comes from patterns, and
these patterns are not mistakes.
They come from the intelligence of the body, adapting in order to stay safe.

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Do you recognize that...

You confuse touch with expectation?


You simply want to be held, but feel pressure to give something back.

You find it challenging to say what you want?

You simply want to be held, but feel pressure to give something back.

You don’t clearly feel what you want?

You agree to touch, but afterwards feel empty or confused.

You sense others more easily than yourself?

You pick up on someone’s tone and adapt automatically, even though you feel something different inside.

You long for real connection, but your head gets in the way?

During a hug, you wonder whether you’re doing it right instead of simply experiencing it.

Learn to recognise and shift the patterns that shape how you relate

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MY PROMISE

What you can expect

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Effective

Insights will drop fast — revealing where you’ve been compromising, adjusting, or holding back without noticing.

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Safe

The workshops are held in a carefully facilitated, trauma-informed space where consent, choice, and pacing are central.

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A journey

For those who step in with courage, openness, and curiosity, each workshop becomes a unique journey.

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I welcome you to feel what becomes possible when you stop performing and start relating from truth.

- NYNKE FEENSTRA

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